ASK AND YOU WILL RECEIVE

A very interesting incident took place a couple of weeks ago, I was traveling from office to back home. It was quite late around 11 o'clock. SO i just thought that, i should just sit down for a couple of minutes on walkers street. I was just thinking about others things, i saw a man coming towards me. He was wearing ragged clothes, he has not shaved for months and he was walking as though he was drunk. He came towards me and i thought, Horseshit, this man will beg for some money. And most of the time what you focus on tends to happen. He said,Sir "can you give one rupee just one rupee, i only need one rupee". I thought this man who is in 50's is begging me for money and i am in my twenties earning a nice amount. It made me curious about how this man is behaving. Sometime back i heard a tony Robbins tape where he said, if you don't keep enough money in pocket, then you have a bad psychology. So i always make a point that keep five rupees or ten rupee notes in between hundred rupee bill.
So what i did was i opened wallet, i made it a point that he sees my wallet and the money inside it. Then i took the one rupee coin. But before giving him i said, " Sir, Life will give what you ask, so ask carefully." Then i gave him the money.
A very interesting thing happened, he looked at money then at my wallet then at my face, again looked at money then on wallet and then on my face, coin --- wallet -- my face. And then he said, "You are weird".
So what i want to say is, Life gives us back what we ask for. We always say" I want money". Then life says, take the dollar you son of a bitch and go away. Be very precise how much money do you want. Be very precise what kind of person you want to be. Don't be like , you know i want to do something great with my life but i don't know what to do.
Get very clear about what you want to have. And then decide what you will give in return because their are no free lunch.
This is first step towards success.
This is article is due the courtesy of Tony Robbins.

Making Our Should's as must

One of the problem everyone faces is that of procrastination i.e we know that we should do a thing but we don't do it.Did you ever tried to figure out why it happens...
Suppose, you got an exam on 25' June and today's date is 5 June. So, you will think that we will study from tomorrow. Although from inside you know you must study but you don't do that. Now its 10 june, pain gets stronger you feel uneasy, but you say i will start from 13th June. Now, its 15th june, the pain gets even stronger, but you still don't pick up the book. Now its 22june, the pain is unbearable but you say from tomorrow i will study.Now its 24th june now you have to face it, now you got to study because the fear of failure, the pain of failure is greater than not picking up the book. Now you will study.. Now the should is converted into must....Now its a must to study,its not a should anymore.
Thats what happens in relationships, you hang in their even though their is little bit pain in it, you don't say anything to the partner. When the pain becomes unbearable you quit the relationship. Thats what happens in everything in life, you wanna loose the weight, you crrrrrrrrry out , o shit o shit, holygod i should loose weight, but
i don't get rid of this fuckin weight. Alhough you feel bad when your thunder thighs don't get into your favourite pair of jeans but thats not enough.... but you still keep on eating that garbage food like a rotten pig... unless one day doctor says yooooooou smelling pig, you got blooodsugar and mild heartattack. Now all horns go up and first thing on the next morning is you got to the gym and run like crazy. What happened, someone slapped your dirty ass, you felt so much pain that you said too yourself, man "we must change".

So the key is to make things must, whatever you want to achieve. It should be a must.
So how to turn a should into a must. First thing that you must understand is that we are nothing but emotions, everything that you and i do is because of emotions... you may say that i do thing because of selfinterest but that's bullshit when emotions comes into picture. If you can enough emotions than you can do anything. Suppose if i tell you to talk to stranger , intially you will be scared and you will think thousand times before talking to him or her. Try it once and see your body language. Your shoulders will be lymped, your heart will be pounding. You will be scared and tell you 95 people out of 100 won't even dare.

Now, i make a twist what if i tell you that, if you don't talk then your whole family will die of hunger, you will beg all your life and you won't get married. Now you just go to person and talk with him because its no more a should and its a must.

Now, let us makes some changes what if tell you that the person is your school mate, now what will do you will go and hug him and kiss him in the places people won't like too know. Now what has changed, your prespective has changed. The way you think about has changed.

So do what you want to with your life,make it a must. talk with the girl you always wanted to speak and propose her. Don't think about the rejection. If you want to acheive something make it must. Thats the way people achieve something in life.
Till next post bye and have great time.
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