The Secret Behind Winning.

" Everything that is,was and is going to be was first perceived in the imagination of men.If you want anything ask,imagine and work for it. And you will achieve it."

If i ask you, what do you want you will probably say thirty thousand per month job, a nice car, good apartment and beautiful wife. My question is why not a billion dollars, a castle, Angelina Jolie as girlfriend. Why not, you can become billionaire in your twenties. Why don't you ask?
In life whatever you want whether it is money,girlfriend,house, a new job whatever you want you want. You will have everything that you need, you just go to follow some universal laws. If you look at universe it works in a effortless manner. Winter follows summer, trees automatically shed there leaves, sun goes down early in winter.Birds leave their nest early in the morning. An Elephant does not tries to grow big. It just is. Everything works fine. If the bone of an animal brakes down it heals automatically , no medicines are required. But people don't observe that.
You might be thinking that I sounding like a spiritual freak, But let me tell you that I have studied the life of hundreds of people, and the common thing is that each of them had a burning desire to succeed , a deep desire to be a successful man. They knew exactly what they want. The problem with most of the people is know exactly what they don't want. And the Universe says,

" Your wish is my command".
The moment you get out of your bed , what you grumble,
you say to yourself , "bullshit, I got to go the office, see that stupid boss, I don't look good". You complain about everything, you say to yourself that i am gone be late for the office.
And the universe says ," Your wish is my command". And you get exactly what you want,
you get late for your office, you meet people like you , who are complaining,grumbling about what's not working.

" You are like a giant magnet that is attracting everything in yo0ur life whether it is the job, your friends, bad luck everything."

We people are nothing but energy, everything in the cosmos is energy. Your energy will attract anything that you want, whether it is bad or good. Universe will not judge it will just give you what you want.

So the question is How to get what you want?
There are three steps.

1. Ask or Knock.

2. Answer.

3. Act as if you got it.

Suppose, I find a girl in my college very beautiful, and i want her to be my girlfriend. So I have to ask the universe. You have to write it down , see it daily before going to sleep and after waking up. And then universe will answer by providing me with unexpected events that are helpful. Universe will answer that's for sure.

Now most people will say , you know what ," Stupid Jay, I asked so many times but i never got it. or they will say, F# $c& you , This stuff doesn't works." What they do is, they don't follow the last step.

The last step is the step where magic works, You have you imagine how it feels when you achieve it. You have to make it so real that it feels like that you already have that what you want. Like you have to imagine that your dating the girl, how it will feel when you touch her hand. How both you will look together. How it will feel when you sit down near the sea shore.
You have to keep on doing that until it becomes real for you.

What it means to be a hero

To Heroes,
Sometimes when i see a great movie or a great book, and I look back
at what made them great. I think what made them great was the ability to make hard decision not based on their personal interest but which helps general public. And for making hard decisions sometimes you have to loose the most precious thing that you have it might be your family , your love or your own life.
And fears surrounds you because you don't want to let it go.
But these great heroes they know that there is something divine in us,
that someone is watching us(GOD). And that someone wants us to make the right decision. Common man moves backward but heroes embrace it as a gift. They know it will be very painful. And they know that in pain there is growth of our soul.

With Love,
From Jay.

My Silent Prayer

So what if i am alone, So what it seems very dark, So what I cant see the path, So what there's no hope, So what the journey seems very long, I know you are there, to take care of wounds, to take care of pains. So what everyone says you will never win, So what no one wants to hear you, So what no one Understands you, So what everyone thinks you are looser, I know that walking a different trail will make others insecure, and i know that you want to test me my father, because you walked on this path. So father give me the strength, To do the things my heart says i should do, To carry on when it seems it can't be done, To bring love in whatever i pursue, To be peaceful when everything is going wrong, To be humble when everything is going in favor, Finally my father, I thank you for everything you gave to me

Triumph and Failure

Today as i was going for the gym, it was a beautiful morning , sun was shining, cool breeze was following.Drops of water were shining on grass blades as if they were pieces of crystal. A thought suddenly struck my mind. I was worrying about bad stomach and that i am not going at right speed for the Mr. India contest. I was really worried what to do. Then suddenly I remembered the lines of Quest

" If you can treat triumph and disaster just the same and still go on trying . Then everything in this world is yours and what's more you will be a man my son".

I thought about it , its meaning is if you are not affected by failure and victory. If you can try in spite of several failures that is true victory.
But I wondered how's that possible,
Then a little story came into my mind.
It was about a boy who wanted to wisest man. It went to a Guru in Himalayas who was a god like person who knew everything. He asked him how can i become wise.
Boy said " I will work for ten hours a day to be wise than how many years it will take".
Wise man said " five years".
Than boy said " I would work for fifteen hours "
Wise man said " Ten years".
Than boy said " I would work for twenty hours "
Wise man said " twenty years".
Than boy said " I would work for twenty hours i will not sleep , i
won't do anything else "
Wise man said " thirty years".
amazed by the reply boy said i increasing the hours and you
are increasing the years why.
Wise man said " Because as long as you keep one eye on the result
, it would take you more time. As long as you are attached with the result. You will find it difficult to achieve. Let go the attachment. And then will attain everything".
So I thought how it can help me in present situation.
I thought may be i ma just forcing my body to look as my mind wants. And i wanted immediate results. And whenever you force anything than it will have equal and opposite reaction. So i should
relax and let go how things how they should be and enjoy the things a s they are. I am not saying that i will let go my desire of making a great body. But i will let go my attachment to the result.
And it immediately brought me peace.
Have a great day.

Bye bye.

Three Principals For Achieving anything in Life

Today, As i was going about my daily business, I got an opportunity
to listen to the tapes of Anthony robins.It was a beautiful tape.
And i am going to share the principles with you.
Basically, There are three principles which you should follow
to achieve anything in life.

The First Principle says, You should focus on what you want.
Then you would say that , OO! yes I focus a lot, I focus that I am
fat, and I should loose weight. Its like when you are driving a car and you are
focusing that you are not going hit the pole by the roadside, then unknowingly you
are focusing on pole and you are going to hit . So the best option would be to look
at the road not towards the pole.
Focus, Concentrate, brood in the silence that what it is that you absolutely want in life.
For ex: I will have 18 inch bicep, 47 inch chest, my weight will be 80 kg.
Visualize your body, imagine it, Feel how wonderful you will look.
Be precise what you want. Don't think about what you don't want, but focus
on what you want. When you ask most of the people they will tell you what they
don't want instead of they want. Thats the key , "Know what you want".
And then visualize it. Once you start doing that ,when you wake up, Your
goals will attract you , you don't have to push. You will be making decisions
on what you want whereas previously you were making decision randomly.
Thats the key difference.

The second principle says " You should get the best tools for achieving your
goal, if you do that you don't have to reinvent the wheel".
You should look at the people who made it big in your chosen endeavor.
If you that then you don't have to start from scratch you will standing on the
shoulders of genius. This will help you in making quick progress.
Get the best teacher, get the best tools. Its like you have a beautiful crystal,
and you have to chisel it to make a beautiful peace. You need the best tool
to accomplish it. If you don't do it. Then you have to by trial and error method,
which could be quite painful.

The third principle is where most people fail.
It is about aligning yourself towards your goals.
Most of as go through life, fighting with ourself.
For ex: I want that , I should have a partner in life but i am not ready to make
commitments, i am not ready to give her enough time.
Or its like i want to make million dollars but i want free time, i need comfort.
When this happens we get divided into two parts both going in opposite in direction.
That leaves as frustrated. Take another case , You want to be famous model but you scared to
death that if you fail. So you will not be able to give yourself completely . So we decide
what we absolutely want from life. what is that that absolutely committed to. People die for
what they are absolutely committed to. And don't ever let other people disturb you.

God bless You.
Keep smiling.

Darkness And Light.

A teacher kept on asking to a student, what is your deepest fear, but student didn't knew the answer, one day finally he got the answer. "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness That most frightens us. We ask ourselves Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small Does not serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking So that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, As children do. We were born to make manifest The glory of God that is within us." It's not just in some of us; It's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, We unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we're liberated from our own fear, Our presence automatically liberates others.

What Natures tries us to teach us.

When you look at nature it teaches you alot. Every thing is in rthyem, Summer is followed by rainy season. Darkness is followed by light. when its winter the sun goes down early, there is fog in the morning, In summer birds leave their nest early, its hot . Similarly, In life there are seasons, seasons of happiness, seasons of sadness. But nothing is permanent. This we cease to recognize, and we start complainig that why we it happens with.As soon as we start to complain the pain increases and we start to feel more empty. Then what we should do ?. The answer is simple that you should do what nature does. You should silently accept it . Someone said in every adversity there are seeds of opportutunity. You should try to find a solution out of a problem to make you a better person.